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MabelMaybe's avatar

For the most part, I am all for nicknames as first names, especially if you don't like the full name (or even if you don't love it). It totally makes sense to choose the the name you're going to call them by!u cousin is just Becky because her mom loved that name, but didn't like Rebecca. Totally reasonable to me. Unless I want to use the full name interchangeably with the nickname, I'd more likely just go with the nickname! Plus, I wouldn't want to go by Tori to everyone, then have the legal name of Victoria if I didn't have any connection to the me or identity associated with it.

(Although, I do have a small caveat for nicknames that are generally only used for kids though. I know people with the legal names Jimmy and Billy, and I just can't get behind those because they seem like kid-only names that people grow out of. The person named Jimmy usually goes by Jim now that he's an adult, probably because Jimmy has juvenile vibes here. )

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Julia VH's avatar

As parent of a Tess, I’m honor-bound to disagree with the ‘no nicknames as full names’ hill.

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