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Jun 18, 2023Liked by Sophie Kihm, Emma Waterhouse

Imogen is a beautiful but oft forgotten classic

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Jun 18, 2023Liked by Sophie Kihm, Emma Waterhouse

We have an Elspeth. Unusual enough that we’ve not met another, but similar enough for her to still be able to use popular nicknames like Elsie, Ellie or Beth if she wants to. We love it!

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Elspeth is fabulous!

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Jun 18, 2023Liked by Sophie Kihm, Emma Waterhouse

I named my second daughter Avery Violet, and had very similar taste to you with names (according to the ones you listed!) - our first daughter is Ella Hayes. Avery felt like a great not super popular name that felt like a lot of the others you listed and we loved but also couldn’t use for various reasons (Maeve, Audrey, Evie, etc). Good luck!!!

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Ella and Avery are such a stylish duo! I love how both have one feminine and one gender-neutral name too.

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Jun 19, 2023Liked by Sophie Kihm, Emma Waterhouse

Isadora just came to mind. And a whole bunch of flower/plant/word names: Magnolia, Dahlia, Phyllis, Amaryllis, Azalea, Amber, Ember, Calla, Florentina, Holly, Ivy, Jasmine, Laurel, Meadow, ...

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Jun 20, 2023Liked by Emma Waterhouse

Ooh and Marigold, Lilac!

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Jun 19, 2023Liked by Sophie Kihm, Emma Waterhouse

Sylvana is like Elizabeth, classic and has so many variations from sweet to powerful - Sylvie for old time style, to Syl for some vintage hipster cool, to Vana for your teenager with attitude, before back to Sylvana as CEO. And I’m an older single mother by choice too (to a three year old boy). The naming struggle is real.

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Sylvana is great! Sylvie in particular feels like a nice fit for Lydia's style.

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Jun 18, 2023Liked by Sophie Kihm, Emma Waterhouse, Clare Green

My name is Asrune (azroon) and I've never met another one. It means "gods secret" and is an old out of use swedish feminine given name. Your welcome to it if you want something unique!

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What a pretty name!

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Jun 18, 2023Liked by Sophie Kihm, Emma Waterhouse

Margot/Margaux

Adelaïde

Raphaëlle

Manon

Ombaline

Ophelia

Adeline

Alula

Valentine

Mabel

Avery

Constance

Celeste

Iris

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Jun 18, 2023Liked by Sophie Kihm, Emma Waterhouse

My paternal grandmother was Darthea. It sounds classic - to my ears at least - but I've never met another one! A nickname could be Darcy, or even Thea.

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Such an interesting name, I've never come across it before (in this spelling at least!)

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Jun 18, 2023Liked by Sophie Kihm, Emma Waterhouse

Phoebe, Nora, Cora, Corinne

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Jun 18, 2023·edited Jun 18, 2023Liked by Sophie Kihm, Emma Waterhouse

What about Lyra, Grace, Esme? Or Nora or Frida? We loved Clara, Vivienne, Phoebe and Claudia. Annie?

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Jun 18, 2023Liked by Sophie Kihm, Emma Waterhouse

I would look in the Cool Classics Below the Top 1000. So many sweet names that are familiar, but unlikely to have existing associations. Maude is my personal favorite! https://nameberry.com/list/491/100-classic-girls-names--below-the-top-1000

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This is a real gem of a list for this kind of dilemma. Thanks for sharing!

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Jun 18, 2023Liked by Sophie Kihm, Emma Waterhouse

Clara is the first name that came to mind when reading your list of names you love but can't use :)

Clara

Eloise

Elena

Lilia

Molly

Millie

Emmeline

Amara

Elise

Eliza

Maren

Margot

Lucia

Penny

Wendy

Evelyn

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Jun 19, 2023Liked by Sophie Kihm

Yes! My daughter is Clara, which means bright or clear, such a beautiful name.

I also love Nora, Elodie, Eve, Vivienne (Vivi), Genevieve (Vivie or Neve), Delilah, Josephine (Josie), Valentine, Clementine

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My daughter is Clara too!

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Jun 18, 2023Liked by Sophie Kihm, Emma Waterhouse

It can help to think of someone who's inspired you, or someone you admire, to name her after. That way you could have a positive association to a name that you like.

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Such good advice! Kids love to hear about the personal stories behind their name too.

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Jun 20, 2023·edited Jun 20, 2023Liked by Sophie Kihm, Emma Waterhouse

I would suggest Adela. It's similar to some of the names you are drawn to, like Audrey and Ella. It's classic and feminine but uncommon.

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Jun 20, 2023Liked by Sophie Kihm, Emma Waterhouse

I think I share your taste too — tons of overlap between our lists. Our daughters are Isabelle Hope (I like Belle for short but she already prefers Bella though she’s only 2) and Evangeline Claire (Evie or Eva for short). Names that I love that you didn’t mention include “super classics” Anna and Elizabeth as suggested above, but also Adeline, Astrid, Brigitte/Bridget, Cecily, Coralie, Elodie, Florence, Imogen, Millicent, Mirabel, Miriam, Natalie, Rosalie, and Rosamund. I tend to love long, feminine, but not too frilly names with a few cute nickname options.

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Jun 19, 2023Liked by Sophie Kihm, Emma Waterhouse

My daughters name is Lucelia. Feminine but still strong. We thought it was unique enough that there won’t be a lot of them but it sounds common enough so people don’t have difficulty pronouncing it.

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Ooh, Lucelia is gorgeous!

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